Finding a car or a boy.

I’ve been going through this thought; people should just say exactly what’s on their mind. Don’t beat around the bush, or pretend to be someone you're not.. People are fake. If everyone was open to everyone, life would be so much easier! It’s this ego we put up. These days the social status makes it so you just can’t show/say it or you’re “weak”. No people, it’s just being an honest human being who has emotions. Tell people how you feel. Tell people what you want to tell them. It’s called communication. The thing with relationships, is that people aren’t straight up honest about any of it. If you like me, just tell me. If you like to talk to me, text me or call me, or better yet get over here and let’s chill.. I love when I meet someone who is sooo blunt! That’s a reason I love the deaf culture, because they will tell you what they’re thinking at every moment! I’ve tested this out these last few weeks, to tell people what I’m thinking, how I’m feeling, and giving it to them straight! No matter how the situation turns out, when it’s all over I feel good that I spoke up for myself. People like to hear the truth of situations. It’s like when you’re with little kids, and they say things that no one else dares to.

Story:

One of my family members went to a meeting, and there was a kid that has aspergers, and as they were sitting there listening to everyone talk about pointless topics he says, “I have so many better things to do, we are wasting time”. Even though everyone laughed because it was “out of the norm” that’s what the rest of them were thinking.

So this week, be the person that speaks their mind. If you like someone. TELL THEM. If someone asks you a question, give it to them straight!  Obviously don’t lose your job or do something a little cray cray. But tell people more of what you’re thinking. I promise it will make a world of difference and you will feel more peace in your life! Try it out.